Marriage is a commitment between two people who love each other and don't want to step another foot forward without them in their life. To make this commitment, you don't need a piece of paper. You don't need to have many in attendance. You don't need to be of the same gender. You don't need to pay an officiant. Hell, you don't even have to live in a state that acknowledges your commitment... because it's between you and them.
When our good friends Whitney and Lacy asked us to come spend the weekend with them in Ohio to go to Cedar Point and then be there for their wedding, we said "you had us at Cedar Point." Have camera, will travel. Oh, and they asked Molly to be the officiant. Why not? When/if Indiana legalizes gay marriage, they'll just run and do the courthouse thing really fast.
Whitney and Lacy, marriage brings with it many days of pain, but more days of joy. Fight through the bad and count the good ones, because in the end those are the ones you'll remember forever. We love you two.